Dear Peony:

I am not familiar with EFT. I am familiar with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and had a very successful experience with CBT as couple and individual therapy.

You wrote: “A few months before the wedding, I began to notice his irritability with me and his depression. We would fight, argue and never resolve”-

For my better understanding I ask:

1. What was your experience with him during the one year of dating and during the first months of living together (before you noticed his irritability)?

2. What were the fights and arguments about; who started them, what were the complaints voiced by the initiator of the arguments/ fights? How did the other respond? An example would be helpful.

3. What did you like about the couple counselor you saw for a year? What were the benefits of that year counseling?

anita