I completely understand what you are saying. I’m getting out of a marriage right now, and like you, even when I look around me no one I know is satisfied with what they have. In fact the happiest person I know has actually been single, not dating, for a year. I do still believe in love, and the ability to be satisfied with your partner. But I’m not ready for that reality yet and if I met the right man the timing would be wrong. Maybe you just aren’t ready. I know for me I’m trying to focus on what went wrong on my side last time and maybe doing a little more emotional maturing. I used to believe being all tied up in one another’s lives and having that all consuming love was romance. It clearly is not.