Hi,

Thank you for your input!  Solid, grounding advice from both of you.

Craig, I recently read a book called No More Mister Nice Guy.  It was a very good book that helped me identify and begin to address a lot of the issues that I run into in my relationships.  I reread things sometimes and I’m addressing my codependency by remembering to put myself first and taking control of what I thought I had no control over.  I really appreciate your approach of being honest with what I would normally consider a weakness by presenting it in a way that shows I know it’s a vulnerability, but i’m strong enough to be aware and work on myself.

Anita, thanks for reminding me to not put myself down.  I’ve always felt like I’m not good enough and that I have to be this larger than life, perfect person in order to earn someone elses attention.  I know now that it’s not supposed to be that way.  Just like you pointed out that she can’t be perfect either.

We continue to talk daily.  We both initiate conversations, so that makes me feel better that it’s not just me showing interest.  The conversation is great as we both discover common interests and share the uncommon ones.  I guess I just feel good about the progress of everything even though inside I’m scared shitless!!!

I’ll keep you guys updated…  Thanks again,

Ramone