Dear perfect:

My strong recommendation: end all contact with B. He is guilty of mistreating you, repeatedly, sexually, emotionally.

You wrote about (most of) your family: “each time they were pressuring me (to get together with B), I told them what he does, but they don’t admit his fault because he is too nice to them.”

Your family members who want you to date/ get married with him because he is nice TO THEM, because he is a Medical Doctor in the UK, because he may spend money on them- well, let THEM date him; let them expose themselves to his sexual and otherwise emotional abuse (suicide threats, blackmailing, etc).

Do what is right for you, protect yourself from abuse.

anita