Dear Penelope Jones:

I understand you are sad and upset at this loss. Maybe there is something important to learn from this experience. Maybe if you learn it, it will be possible to resurrect and much improve this friendship.

You wrote: “she said that for a while i had been insulting her, and that i was not aware of it…now i get it, sometimes we say things we dont mean and are not aware of it”

I don’t understand: what do you mean by not being aware of what you say?

And what did you say to her that you didn’t mean (specifically during the last argument regarding the tutor position)?

* will be back to the computer in 10-12 hours and will reply if you post again by then.  I hope others will reply as well. Take care.

anita