* A side note to Eliana: this is a side note because it is my practice to respond on any one thread to the Original Poster (OP) only. (I believe that discussion/exchange between respondents is not a good practice). But because you don’t have your own thread, I am making an exception so to let you know that I personally value your participation here very much: I appreciate you reaching out to members, sharing your life experiences so generously, not sparing time and effort to respond to members with sensibility, wisdom and lots of empathy.

anita