Hey Heartbrokengurl,

I know being in a new relationship can be overwhelming, but in time the anxiety will mellow into comfort if he’s right. I know you are worried the more you fall for him the more he will hurt you. I am the same way. You could let it prevent you from getting closer (which is what I do, but I don’t necessarily advise it) or you can enjoy it! Enjoy the anxiety! You have found someone who you love to spend time with! You’re so lucky!

What also has helped me it to take a step back and look at dating from a more neutral perspective now. I have come to realize that most girls have at least one other guy who they flirt with or keep around to make themselves feel good. A lot of guys do, too. Maybe just looking at dating with this more realistic perspective so if you find out this new guy does have another girl, or he is not interested, then it won’t hurt as much. And if he is all in with you, all right!