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Dear Sleepy_Kiki:
He didn’t understand why you broke up, you wrote. I am sure it is not for lack of you explaining it to him. You express yourself, on this thread very well, clearly, accurately. And so, you have the communication skills to explain it to him.
You wrote in your original post: “I explained to him, again that they bothered me. I tried to encourage him to present feedback, but it was like trying to fetch water from a dry well.”
In the beginning, “I’d ask him about himself, and what he wanted out of this relationship, his answers paralleled with mine so I thought we were okay”- what were his answers at that time? I am wondering if there was water initially (his ability and willingness to know and be known) in that well and it dried out? Or was it dry from the beginning?
anita