When I told my ex best friend my feelings for her the day before our high school graduation. I also came out to her as bisexual (I was very unsure of my sexuality at that time of my life). She took in what i’ve told her, shocked and unexpected. Her only response was to give me her listening ear and just had nothing to say.

I began to notice her treating me differently than she did to our other friends. As in being flirtatious and teasing which caused me to wonder why her actions changed. I also noticed she was jealous of others who were close to me, men and women. She’ll never talk to me about this when I address this to her. She kept quiet or just refused to give me a straight answer. She also was physically close to me, never respected my personal space.

My ex also would want me to tag along with her to any event or gathering with her but will treat me like I was never there. She’ll reject my inventions and only spend time with me when it is her own  convenient. She would rather do things what SHE wanted to do. If it doesnt benefit her then she’ll pass it and do whatever she likes.

When she is in need of a friend I was there for her but whenever I needed her she wasn’t there for me. Basically she was selfish and a narcissist. It was narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse and love to take control over me. She loved to be physical to me as in play fight with me to get me to do what she wanted me to do. It wouldn’t surprise me if she was into BDSM. She’s asexual.