Hi Pearce,

Thank you very much for your response. I know I have some cleaning up to do. No one wants to be with someone whom makes them afraid of how they will react when being told something. He told me that he was scared of my reactions and I understand that- I guess I thought that even though I am not perfect, his love for me would help us communicate better and therefore better our relationship in the long run. I miss him dearly. He was perfect for me but I do feel like he gave up tooo easily. Is that selfish of me to feel that way? It was only 4 months that we were together for. I started to see a councilor as I feel like there are internal issues I need to fix. I want to tell him that things will be different this time around but I think he meant it when he said that he was done. I am just upset that he said that I was the love of his life and that he would always fight for us. How can you make such declarations and run away the minute things get tough. Relationships are not perfect. Would you ever date your ex again if you knew she had seek help?