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  • August 26, 2017 at 7:23 pm #165790
    Nez
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    I’m in a casual relationship with someone that i care about(For almost two years).Other party knows that i have always had feeling for him.He doesn’t really talk to anyone.He put too much in his past relationships and says that he can’t go there again.I don’t know how i got here.I know casual relationships are suppose to be basic.We’ve always cuddled with each other.But, when i’m sad at school he offers to cuddle later in his car and we do.He hold me close.Recently, when we cuddled he laid his cheek on mine while spooning until he fell asleep.Is this normal?

    August 27, 2017 at 5:34 am #165808
    Anonymous
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    Dear Nez:

    It is normal to need to be touched, held. Yes, it is normal. It is a normal need we are born with. It calms people, that is probably why he fell asleep when in close bodily contact with you: it calmed him.

    Are you feeling comfortable with the cuddling/ spooning and the nature of this relationship otherwise?

    anita

     

    August 27, 2017 at 6:48 am #165826
    Eliana
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    Hi Nez,

    I don’t have too much to go on with your post, but from what I understand, you are currently in a relationship, and cuddling with someone else, yet view it as “casual”. I am wondering why you don’t want to cuddle with your significant other and choose this man instead. I think if I were the significant other and I saw my boyfriends head in another woman’s lap, I would feel betrayed. No, this is not casual. Any kind of touching is not casual. I do think you need to re-evaluate your current relationship, and find out what is making you unhappy to make you want to cuddle with another man. Just some thoughts.

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