Dear Kylee ,

Good to get to know you. I went through your post and this is what I felt .You are a deep thinker, so you have a vulnerability to seek answers for every conflict which arises within yourself , unless found you can’t be at peace within. One thing I would want you to concentrate is that as you mentioned ” Whenever I’m in a relationship I feel so so anxious like they person will just leave me and not work through the tough times“,I feel its a pattern due to an issue from  young or with a loved one in the family you have experienced a similar situation so deep that you have stopped believing in certain things. Due to which before you got serious about anyone that fear is clouding your thinking , so you enter into it with doubts and questions. I feel your subconscious is very strong, as you explained in the above situation with ex, you were very well aware from the starting that things weren’t looking good. So, the better you will be able to know yourself , the better you will be able to handle yourself in any relationship knowing how much you are comfortable pushing yourself in accepting and compromising for the other person. But certain fears hinders thinking clearly through situations as I mentioned above , you need to work out that anxiety factor and come into terms with it. Why don’t you give this a thought? (it might be right or wrong , so its just a view point from my side). Hope this insight helped you. Take care.