Hi Desiree (and Jay! LOL, sorry, I couldn’t read all that you wrote, but I’ll try to talk to you, too!)

All I can say is WOW!! You (and Jay) must be brilliant if you are a med student (and a law student) and still have time to complain about your boyfriend(s)!

What would happen if you told the guy that HE wasn’t a first priority? No offense, fella, but you’re the one who has to get through school!

I honestly wouldn’t take anything he does personally as he is young. Unless you’re going to marry the guy (you might not!), the mission of becoming a doctor (or lawyer) comes first. Once you are solidly in those professions, then you can revisit whether you want a relationship, and with whom.

My son is in a service academy and even he broke up with his girlfriend because there was “no time” and he can’t be distracted.

I would view having a boyfriend as optional.

Study Hard,

Inky