Anita,

I never really explore my relationship with my mother very deeply until I talked to you here.

But now reading your reply – I guess it is true that my mother is rejecting me.

My ex boyfriend was the first important person in my life that accepted me, and the reason why I seek acceptance and love outside my family because I am not accepted there.

That is why I seek marriage very quickly, even at the age of 19 – to accept and feel love. To make my own little family, I would choose someone very different from my father and I will be a different kind of mother to my own kids. I will make sure that I marry someone because of love, and that my partner is the type of person that I can always count on to love me and my kids.

That is why my dreams isn’t to be a successful women, but to be a supporting wife and a good mother to my kids.

-Mina