Dear Tom:

The last message you sent her  “was just a normal message mentioning something we spoke about on the last date”-

maybe what you mentioned in your last message, that something you spoke about on the last date, was too insignificant for her, for example, maybe you mentioned a rock band you like that she doesn’t care about and that didn’t trigger her to answer. Just maybe. And if so far you avoided the real topics of concern to you, which is the nature of her feelings for you, the quality of the relationship itself, then maybe she thinks you are superficial.

I suggested to ask her questions on what really does concern you so that you get the information you need and know where you stand (in the title of your thread)

anita