Here’s another thought: Your daughter is getting old enough to pick up on what’s going on. You don’t want her to think it’s normal for non-parental figures to “take mommy and daddy away”. Or for daddy to have a harem. Or worse, for her mother to be a slut. As that’s what the other kids and adults would call her. Open marriages aren’t accepted or understood in most of society because it’s unusual and weird for a reason. The reason is that THEY DON’T WORK. Period. End of story.
I would be out of that marriage as it’s better for a girl to live with her divorced single mom than be surrounded by the STRANGE energy of an openly cheated on father who is being brainwashed into thinking this is somehow normal and OK. Hint: It’s not.
Even better: Sue for custody. Shut her fantasies down.
Inky
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