Dear eitherway:

Welcome back!

She told you the second date that she was breaking her rules. It felt right for her on that night. Not unlikely, the next day it  felt strange, as in, that was too close, too fast and she may have felt conflicted about having broken her rules, a conflict she did not experience that night.

It does feel strange, doesn’t it, to feel so close and then be apart, so close to someone you just met? I would proceed with caution, if I was you. Slowly. There needs to be an adjustment made, in your brain and in hers, an adjustment to a new situation. This may have been “Starting too fast”- so slow down, and talk with her about how it feels, to have started too fast. If the two of you talk about it, it will help with the adjustment hopefully to be made.

anita