Hi Anita, thanks for your reply! Yes, this is the same man.

Things have being going so well with him, but both of our anxieties are coming up.

I want to be there for him, and help him, but I’m not sure how. I’ve asked him if there’s anything I can do, but I don’t want him to feel like its something he’s doing wrong, and vice versa.

I know he just gets in his head and causes this ‘problem’.  I want to make it stress free for him, and have him know that its ok and we’ll work through it.  Just wish there was some way I could help.