Hey, Matt!

It may be fear after all.

You don’t have to fear that shoes or bags will take your wife away from you.

(I have never been into fashion, clothing, shoes, bags, makeup; I don’t cook and never liked sewing or knitting; have never wanted to wear skirts or dresses, unless they were long – so on the surface I could just as well question myself being a woman ;))

But you love your wife, and you have every reason to believe that not complying with her wishes will take her away from you (which you fear and don’t want). So your subconscious is conditioning your body to accept the situation, which would otherwise be unacceptable. Hence all your questioning, reasoning, trying to see why not, etc.

What do you think?

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