My boyfriend and I just broke up a couple days ago we have been in an up and down relationship for the past 5 years now and this year has been great until the other day, we got together when i was 16 and now he says he feels like im a puppet and that i need to find myself for our relationship to het back together and work, i feel like i do know myself and am not a puppet but dont know how to show him. I would do anything to save our relationship we have been through so much over the years and believe that he is the one. Do I let go and just see if fate brings us back together or do i stay and try to show him Im not a puppet?