Dear Gagan:

You are welcome. As to your question: I don’t think you should attempt to resurrect any type of past relationship with her. It is all in the past now. Changes have taken place, significant changes. Things can not be like they were before.

You wrote that it feels like a waste- I understand waste to mean something that is gone, that there is nothing left of it. Waste, then is part of life, happens every day, and will continue. This pleasure here is gone a short time later, a beautiful flower wilts and dies, money you have today, gone after paying a bill… youth is gone, bit by bit and the list goes on and on. People try to hold on to things and to people, as if they can keep losing things and people.

Better accept the nature of life, of reality as peacefully as we can.

anita