Dear Gagan:

Taking in the information that she did not always place blame with you, that she did take responsibility for her actions when things mattered; taking in the information that she was very loving of you, not abusive in any way, and consistently so for years, then I would say-

Time for you to attend quality psychotherapy to look into your fears, your anxiety which caused you to ignore that love, for years, and send her away to the other guy. It must be significant anxiety on your part to have been responsible for you ignoring a truly loving woman and a true love relationship for years.

anita