Thank you very much Anita. I think she is indeed anxious since she is anxious about a lot of things. Does this qualify as anxiously attached?

At the moment she is very anxious about her new job and cannot get the proper comforting by her current boyfriend.

We were supposed to meet tomorrow but she cancelled saying that all the impressions this week are too much for her (impressions on work and me)

During our relationship there was a lot of push/pull. I see this as another push, am I correct? This makes my anxiety levels rise and i do not want that. So next time I see her I will tell her that we need to take our distance again.

What do you think?