Dear  Confused123:

I wonder how significantly your partner’s communication with you deteriorated since his grandmother’s death. That may be of some significance.

I think that quality psychotherapy is necessary. The therapist or counselor you saw may have been right for you or not. It takes the right fit, someone who is caring and hard working, gentle and patient.

I will soon be away from the computer for about 16 hours. If you would like to share with me by the time I am back about anything that may be of relevance, please do and I will reply when I am back.

anita