Dear Anita,

My husband is grieving the loss of me. He gets very angry and uses my daughter against me knowing he should not. He was told about this when we were both in counseling. I am pretty sure he has told my daughter that I was with another man. He was beside himself with anger and grief when I left. Like I said before, I love my apartment and having alone time. I have been out with a few men and I am enjoying it. However, I feel like a bad mother leaving my perfect family to date and have fun with other men.

Allison