Dear calisister:

With co workers, incompatible (but not abusive) family members, strangers on the street, neighbors- be socially gracious enough.

With your sister, do the team work I suggested. w

With me: keep being as honest and straightforward, a non sugar coater as you have been so far: I invite it and delight in it.

With future friends and a boyfriend- find those fewer people available who are also Non Sugar Coaters (NSC, acronym just came into being).  You can tell this quickly when meeting a person.

anita