Dear Cali Chica:

You wrote: “I am a fixture that must fix everything. Alleviate my sister’s pain and suffering, help my mother, fix everyone”-

Notice this: you succeeded in making your mother feel better every time you suffered as a result of her motivation to cause you suffering (most recently on the way to the hospital). You succeeded to make your father feel better by … making his wife feel better. You succeeded again and again in making them feel better  until the next time they needed to feel better.

You succeeded in making your sister feel better so that she could experience relief and keep functioning until the next time she needs a relief.

Look at your success, look at these five lines I wrote here, above.

Tell me what you think.

anita