Dear Maria:

Well, you have no experience then, in committed type, monogamous relationship with a man. I understand the struggle you have, being new at this. As a matter of fact people with lots of experience struggle as well.

Aiming at this kind of relationship takes a different strategy than FWB. FWB is faster, no process much in it, on (hooking up) and off, nothing in between.

There is anxiety in the in-between, the not knowing. It is scary, isn’t it?

anita