Dear Juan:

Two months is such a short time. Habits from the past, as in saving nude pictures and flirting with others in phone messages, these may be just that, habits carried on for so long. If his behavior since in a relationship with you does not include him having any kind of sexual relations with other people, only those photos and iffy messages, within this very beginning relationship, then I would say, let it go, if you can. Let the nude photos and iffy messages you found out go and don’t snoop again.

If you tell him that you snooped … he may have a trust issue with you. Better not tell him, I am thinking, and respect his privacy from now on.

Because of your trust issues I am sure you will keep your eyes open to any real evidence of betrayal. Hope there is none.

anita