Hey, CarpeDiem,

I can imagine your feelings. It’s hard to hear such words from someone who is dear to you. I don’t know if I’m able to give you any useful advice, since I’m still in “I should fight for her” stage. It’s this mindset that I can’t escape.

You mentioned you are feeling better now. Don’t stop with what you are doing. If it ever becomes boring in the gym – you should try bouldering/climbing. It’s more engaging, goal-oriented exercising. You also get a chance to meet new interesting people there. Climbers seem to be very friendly people. Thanks for your support. I hope you will find your way out of this emotional attachment one day. Take care.

Corticality