Dear NamesAreOverrated,

Anita’s email contains good questions. Also, you state a few times that you were not traumatized at all by your brother’s actions. I do not mean any offense, but sometimes when someone repeats a statement like that, they may not be sure whether on some level they are feeling effects of what happened. It would be understandable if you were.

Other than your brother or parents, is there a trusted friend with whom you could discuss this?