There are time where my feelings are hurt but he never lets me have my feelings. He always gets defensive and then it’s like I shouldn’t have the feelings and I end up saying sorry. Or he gets defensive and then the argument persists and he says mean things and I get upset but then he wants to be done with the argument. I can’t just walk away from the argument after hurtful things have been said. I always want to talk things out where he wants to be left alone. So then he feels like I corner him. The argument can be about anything little. Like I was going to make dinner the other night and even went food shopping on my lunch break. He knew I was making dinner and went to this gym that is about 25 minutes away and didn’t get home until 9:00pm. So I told him that it bothered me he did that when he knew I was going out of my way. But he turned it into “im not allowed to go to the gym”. When I see him tonight we are going to talk and I am scared that this will be it tonight. I am almost sure that is where it is headed. And I’m scared. I live with him an hour away from my parents. Yea not terribly far but I have my job by him and our dog that will most likely stay there because that “is her home”. I don’t know how to get through this.