Hey Anita,

thanks for your reply, him and his mum are super super close. He has one older brother and one younger brother so his the middle child, he is his mums golden boy. He spends hours talking to her and it’s pretty sweet to be honest… I’m close to my mum so I get it…but I just feel like I can’t trust them sometimes..like they’re scheming behind my back. Maybe I’m just paranoid.

He doesn’t even pay rent but his little brother does… the lodgers actually pay more than I would pay. So she would be losing out on money with me, however I failed to mention that I have previously taken out a loan for them aswell this time last year. A large amount also, his little brother had a psychological breakdown and spent 3months in a psychiatric ward…so I took that money out to help her convert the garage into a bedroom for him to move back into when he was better. And it also payed for the rest of my boyfriends tuition fees. The mothers been great paying back the loan she puts the money in my account every month. It just shocked me that she would find a way to help by asking me to take out more under my name.

I don’t think he is using me but maybe her? Ah it’s tough because she’s been very helpful to me and I’ve been helping her also. I guess I felt this way because when I told me mum she flipped and said it wasn’t a good idea.