Dear Louisalou:

In your recent post you wrote: “I feel like I meant nothing to him”.

In your original post you wrote: “He has drug issues.. with cocaine and ketamine, very rarely a day goes by without him using. The rest of the time he works and sleeps or gets stoned. I also suspect he’s self medicating an undiagnosed mental health condition such as bipolar”-

It reads to me that the issue is not that you meant nothing to him before or now. Reads to me that he is unavailable for a relationship, being that his brain is often altered by drugs.

*He keeps a job while being on drugs. I wonder how he does that, if he works around people, don’t his employer/s suspect, by his looks and behavior that he is on drugs and if so, order drug testing for him?

anita