I did not used words correctly- i meant that most of the guys would spend time with me just because I am not talkative, yet I listen to others’ problems and the “relationship” i had last years was just the case. Everybody could come and talk to me when they have problems(as they throw their problems at me like I am a bin), but when I do the connection is lost or i am either crazy and imagine things or get insults.

No, this guy is totally different story- for now. He is really shy(I can tell by his behavior) and introverted and when I talked to him that night he spoke in a way that he could not offerend anyone in any any(only good or nothing/or the obvious). Well, he could be interested in me, yet by the time I try to put myself together he could possibly find someone else(just like the other in my life). That is why I ask you here if you think  it is normal to write to him now.