Dear leelee:

I think that you should separate the two situations with the two men, as I don’t see them connected: your ex boyfriend betrayed your trust in him, repeatedly. After the three chances you gave him, it is time to give up on your past hopes and dreams regarding him, I believe.

The exchange student who will be leaving to Italy soon, well, you can keep in contact with him, as a friend, but it is not possible to have a love relationship with him because you live in Hong Kong and he lives in Italy.

A third option would be to meet a trustworthy man in Hong Kong, a man who intends to remain in Hong Kong for as long as you do.

I hope you feel better soon, and do post again anytime you’d like.

anita