Dear Cat:

I am fine, thank you. Good to read from you again. You do seem to enjoy the music gigs. Glad you started a new, mutually honest and respectful relationships. We heal within the context of new, honest and respectful relationships.

A child betrayed has hope and so, I have hope. You have hope. Others do too.

I think correct is the right word, sure. It is incorrect to believe that you don’t deserve to be happy (until certain individuals are happy first). It is an incorrect belief, not congruent with reality. When we believe what is not true to reality, to the objective reality, we suffer.

anita