Dear Leocube:

In your earlier post you wrote: “The fact that I will think about them could mean that maybe they are worthy to have in my life”.  In your recent post you gave an example of a person you think about who is not worthy to have in your life.

Well, then you know that when you do think about your parents once they are no longer in your life, it does not mean at all that they are worthy to have in your life.

The fact that you feel about your parents the way you do is a result of their input into your life, it is a consequence of their words, actions and lack of. Let them experience the consequences of their input into your young life. It is not a good idea to interrupt the natural law of cause and consequence, to … protect people from this law.

Some sadness of their part? Be it.

I used to think my mother will be devastated without me in her life, that she couldn’t live… well, she is living just like before, five years of no contact with me.

anita