Dear Lynda:

I think you are panicking following too many days and/ or nights of noise from the above neighbors, too much distress following  their aggression. It is not just the noise, is it not, it is also knowing that they disregard your well being and your son’s well being and  are hurting the two  of you knowingly.

I think silence is Wales is an excellent idea. I think that moving out of your flat ASAP is a good idea, can’t move out too soon, I think. Can you move out before leaving f0r Wales?

Seeing too many steps ahead of you is not possible when as distressed as you are. So look at just one step or two ahead of you. You need a break from the noise and aggression from above, reads to me and that is of first and immediate priority.

What do you think?

anita