Dear urooz:

You are welcome.

In your post before last you wrote: “What bothers me is why is it bothering me… why am I having anxiety and all that.”- because it is scary to be betrayed. It is like falling down, nothing to hold on to, isn’t it?

Falling down is scary. I am thinking you were probably betrayed before, as a child. So many of us, when children, have been betrayed.

Treat yourself and your husband well. You wrote before that there is care and respect there. These two things are a whole lot. Be a safe, trustworthy place for him as he is these things for you.

anita