Dear Tiny Buddha:

You are emotionally attached to this man, missing him, missing the good times you had with him. This is natural and understandable, happens when a relationship ends and there is no other that replaced it.

Your ex boyfriend, you wrote, “pushed a lot of things on (you)… was extremely emotionally abusive, controlling, and manipulative…make (you) cry almost every weekend…tear (you) down piece by piece… toxic..fought… crying and no resolution… treated me like absolute garbage”

And yet you miss him. I suppose at times he didn’t treat you like absolute garbage. At times you were not crying, not fighting.

In the relationship was there anything you said or did wrong to him, or was all wrong done by him?

anita