Dear Confused801:

Your previous thread was on the same topic, same situation. In it I suggested single. Another member suggested the new guy. Clearly none of these suggestions helped your confusion (if you read the responses there). This leads me to think that your confusion is not about whether you should be with the ex, the new guy or neither one.

Maybe the confusion is about something else, your life outside what you presented. Could it be, something to do with family relationships, maybe, work… something else?

anita