Hello HelloFriend,

The fact that you recognize you are doing something you want to change makes you a great mom, not an “accidental” narcissist.  Perfect moms might be out there somewhere, but I wasn’t one.  I made all kinds of mistakes and like you, I apologized when I needed to and tried to change behaviors that were less than loving.

Kara’s suggestions are excellent.  Being present in the little things and showing your kids love throughout the day is what they will remember.

The idea of doing something with them in lieu of looking at your phone, and setting a limit is excellent also.

Best wishes for you and your cherubs.

Airene