I agree. The only moment which exists and will always exist is now. The past and future, happen at the same time which is relative.
Our relationship with our parents is funny really xD. We don’t get to choose them. These are the people who instill their beliefs in us while we are way too young to understand how the world works. To us they are like these know-it-all superhuman beings who are doing the best they can. We see the world through their vision, tainted or pure doesn’t matter.
As we grow up, we realize that they are only humans like we are. This creates conflict. The most important part is that you can’t ever be enemies with them, despite how bad they treated you. By ignoring them you will create a conflict much larger than you can handle, something which shakes your core and makes you question your very existence.
So the right way of dealing with this, in my opinion, is to forgive them. Move on. Life is so much more than this 🙂
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 