Thank you. I needed to hear this. This man can convince me of anything, i feel so weak around him. He is doing the guilt trip, telling me im breaking my family up and not fighting for us. I actually feel bad when thus was the same man who ignored and neglected us daily at home.  He swear to use any other methods besides hitting me again and to be there for me to help save the relationship with one more chance.  From my experience i know its not true but i still feel like im walking awY from a POSSIBLY  good man if he changes.  Why? I am so confused…