Dear hanna:

I am not clear about these two sentences: “Granted, I became a bit reserved in the sense that I would be so afraid…. that I would not follow up that day to see what the plans were… Which eventually led to him doing a group mandated event for his job”

You suggested getting together, then “became a bit reserved”-

What did your “bit reserved” translate to in your actual communication to him?

How did that “bit reserved” lead to him doing a group mandated event for his job and not be available to see you until later in the night?

anita