Hi Anita,

My relationship in 2016 was great with him, we established such an amazing bond and friendship and we were making it to something more. Then one day he messaged me and said I can’t see you anymore, I’m getting back with my ex. That was heartbreaking and I hated him for a while. When he came back into my life, we talked it out and I thought ok maybe I could over look it so we tried again but this situation was ringing in the back of my mind that the same thing would happen again. I was coming across controlling, blaming him in fights even though I didn’t realise the underlying issue of fear at the time.