Dear Vanessa:

How is your relationship with your nephew, your sister’s son and how is it affected by the bad relationship with your sister?

If there was no issue of a relationship with your nephew, if it was just your sister, I would suggest to have no contact with her whatsoever.

You wrote: “I have been the better person”. Unfortunately, being the better person to a .. bad person, is not a good thing. Unfortunately, it is not a good thing, this is why you are suffering.

When a person mistreats you, misuses you, takes advantage of you, you are not being a good person for allowing her or him to do those things to you.

Plus you don’t get points for it.

I hope to read from you soon.

anita