Dear Earth Angel:

It is better in future posts that you ask me 2-3 questions in each post, top three questions per day. Sometimes when you ask the same question I come up with new thoughts and therefore new answers, so when you repeat questions, it can be useful. So ask, okay to repeat. But limit to three per post/ per day.

Also, you are welcome to go back and re-read questions you already asked and my answers. When we read the same thing at a different time, we can pick up on something new we didn’t notice before. The same answer can bring different thoughts to our mind.

This very post is an example of assertion: I asserted myself with you by suggesting that you limit the number of your questions. If you don’t respect my suggestion and ask me 4 questions next post, I will bring it to your attention. And I will expect you to  respect my assertion the third time and onward.

Same when you assert yourself with others: make a suggestion like I did to you. Then pay attention: is the person respecting your suggestion. Maybe they forgot to, so bring it up to their attention the second time. If they ignore your assertion the third time, well… time to leave the person be and move on and away.

I am looking forward to your next post.

anita