Hi RedDress,

It could be a maturity issue (on their part) and one they will hopefully someday outgrow. If enough people shed them as a friend because they are flakey, passive and mean-girls, they will learn to treat people better. Maybe in ten years you can be around when that happens.

Don’t be afraid of becoming friends with people outside of your age range either.

I wish I had better advice. My other one is to Accept People The Way They Are (master level), but it sounds like you’ve had enough of their bull crap. It’s OK to say, “Enough!”

Best,

Inky